Most guys are afraid and find it hard to express what they truly feel even deep inside they want to shout and explode like a bomb to express that they do love that person but their mouth is too powerful to stop its explosion and so the feelings are kept and suppress inside. This cycle happens to couples who want to be together again but don’t have the courage to ask for reconciliation until these feelings kept on haunting them inside and even with the constant question on how to get her back.
After the break up, the first thing that you want to do is to move on, have fun and enjoy your being single again but as the days go on, you will see the effects of the break up, you’ll realize how your life is messed up without her but your still on the denial stage that you act to be okay and having fun without her but the truth is you are just pretending and deep inside, all you want is to get her back. Pretentions will not only be your constant mask to hide what you truly feel but rather it will even trigger the explosion of your feelings until you realize that you want to get your ex back but pride takes in because you were hurt and she caused you a lot of trouble and pain. You continue to wear the mask to keep pretensions active and functional. She might cause the bitterness in your heart but you know for a fact that she will be the only person who can turn all these bitterness to happiness.
No matter how we try to escape the past, it will keep on haunting you because there are so many queries and even though you already know the solution or answer to these queries you keep on suppressing the truth that getting your girlfriend back is the only answer. There may be a lot of ways to divert your attention or your too strong to suppress those feelings of yours. You’ll end up realizing that you are just torturing yourself, in short you are prolonging your agony. It would be one of those times when you don’t know how to deal with the situation that causes too much hardship which greatly distraught your feelings.
Why not try to express those emotions and let that person know how much you want her back and that you’ll do everything to make things better the second time around and that makes the story short and does not cause you any agony. All you need is courage to tell what you truly feel. Telling the truth doesn’t make you look dim but it will set you free and you’ll never know that this might be the key on how to win back your girlfriend.